Understanding men in dating
Which is why I routinely get emails from men, saying “What am I supposed to say to her?
She’s sexy and has nothing to say.”To which I say, “Why would you want to sit across a dinner table from someone who is sexy and has nothing to say?
During this decade of the hippie, women burnt their bras and men grew their hair long and got in touch with their emotions.It is necessary to have both a masculine and a feminine.The problem arises when someone is predominantly one over the other in the direction that they do not intend. This means that one of the partners is more strongly associated with their masculine, and the other their feminine.It’s just that most of the people I talk to are interested in serious relationships with other intelligent people — and yet they can’t resist the pull of writing to the hottie with the 90 IQ.And they’re looking for me to give them the magic bullet that’s gonna do the trick. Maybe you can find some pick-up artist out there who swears he’s got the formula that works, but I have to call bullshit on it.
Am I now going to suggest that the pendulum needs to swing back in the other direction back to a pre-1970′s polarization? As I mentioned earlier, every being has a masculine and feminine energy.