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With it, you will get exactly what you’re asking for. If that is your goal, keep pushing away the nice guys and letting the bad boys take their shots. I’d never criticise a woman for dumping a ‘nice’ guy.
You’ll find them attractive, but they generally won’t want to stick around with a single mom who has all your responsibilities. I do however get a bit exacberated at all the women who claim that ‘i just want a nice guy.’ That kind of sentiment doesn’t do justice to yourself or the men who want to date you.
Half the fun of going out is getting to know someone new, so allow yourself to let that happen organically." —Oliver B."Please don't compare us to your exes—out loud or even in your head.
In short, a guy doesn’t have to be a jerk to do well with women. And while I hate to keep on referencing old blog posts, some of them apply specifically to this theme, especially this one, which says: Nice guys don’t finish last. By your admission, he “calls, writes me letters, texts, takes me out, does family outings, asks about my day, washes my car, is clean, is fit, responsible, understanding, compliments me, etc, etc.”So what do you think? Or is there something more to dating and relationships than what someone does for you? And I think they get lost when we start focusing on checklists.It shows me that she's genuinely interested in spending time with me as opposed to wanting to be wined and dined regardless of who she's with." —Nate N."If the guy doesn't say something and take the check off the table to pay, it's probably fair to assume that you're going Dutch.There are different reasons that a guy might not pick up the tab (some that might not have anything to do with you), but if you're into him, avoid looking too disappointed.I just got the sense that I’d win every argument for the rest of our lives because she was such a pushover.And that wasn’t something I either respected or was attracted to. I think the X-Factor is that you’re a 28-year-old single mom.
wants to make me happy and for me to be his “girlfriend” and I can just tell the L word is coming along any day now. Sure everyone puts their best foot forward when they’re dating but who’s to say he’ll stay like that? Dear Diana, I can only imagine that thousands of women were reading your post and nodding along at the familiarity of your situation. Let’s break them down separately, so hopefully you can find a little clarity — or, more likely, validation, for how you feel. There has been a great deal written on this, and there’s an entire industry designed to explain to “nice guys” how to attract women.