Girl busy dating
Or let sleeping dogs lie and assume I just was a hopeless romantic about our date?
– Hopeless She might not want a second date for the same reason she was OK with those aimless messages in 2013.
You weren't stressed out about connecting back then, right? As for your perfect date, she probably liked spending time with you, but not enough to rearrange her schedule.
There's no reason to ask her what happened – because happened.
We went our separate ways but she said she had a nice time.
I honestly thought it was the best first date I had ever been on, and really thought we had a connection.
“Do not think that you will change their mind,” Durvasula says.
Although we never met, we occasionally texted each other for fun. We went to dinner and a movie, and at the end of the date we kissed, and she even pulled me back in for a second one.“There can be some reality to the idea of being too busy to date,” she says.“It often turns out that the time when we’re trying to establish our career and identity is the same time that we’re supposed to be looking for a mate.”Of course, there’s also the chance that someone is just feeding you a line.I texted her the next day asking her to grab coffee, but she said she was busy but that we should hang out that week.Long story short, over the next two weeks I asked her to go out on three occasions and each time she replied, "I'm busy then, but how about [blank]? Normally I would accept this as a brush off and move on, but that great first date and the fact we kissed twice (which I feel you wouldn't do if you knew you didn't want to see the person again) has left me confused.
If you need someone who'll make you – and dating – a priority, let her be and move on.